The Wave of Reason

The inner machinations of one nerdly chick

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masculinity is so funny to me bc men deprive themselves of the best things in life in order to achieve it like ….fuzzy socks, fun fruity pink drinks, spa days, lifetime movies,  expressing positive feelings in a healthy way, being a warm genuine person

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"you’re too young to know what your sexuality is" said the straight person to a queer teenager 

"he’s such a ladies’ man" said the straight person about a 6 month old baby that doesn’t know what a lady is

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I’ve had a couple people ask me why I no longer post on Toypics and this is why. I blocked out my name and e-mail because that is my actual name and my usual e-mail. If you have issues reading the caps, message me and I will copy and paste the e-mails or something, idk.

Anyway, I used to post on Toypics under the name BoyWith2Holes, same as my QueerPornTube name. There used to only be Guys + Toys and Women + Toys categories. I would post in the Guys + Toys because I am a guy. They had added a Transgender + Toys category which I would also post in because I am a trans guy. Seems pretty logical.

Then I get an e-mail from the site owner, the same person who own Bad Dragon, that I need to post ONLY in Transgender + Toys. I get the reasoning that first, it’s because I am trans and people are complaining about there being a dude pussy in the guy tag. Their issue, not mine. Then, he backpedals and says it is based on ‘actual sex’. Well, my actual sex is male. Transgender is not an actual sex.

I break these points down very clearly and calmly in my e-mails to him. After the last one, I went to my Toypics account. He had deleted every single one of my videos for refusing to give into this cissexism. All of them, gone. That was the final straw. I deleted my account.

The idea that Bad Dragon is cissexist/transphobic is not unfounded. It is something I personally experienced and it’s one of the reasons I now do paid porn. They are also racist, and misogynistic. They also do not tell their customers of policy changes, refuse refunds for their company mess-ups, and so forth. If you want an alternative, I suggest Frisky-Beast, Damn Average (Etsy/FA) and Average (FA).

They changed the transgender tag to transsexual after this as well, thinking that it would ‘fix’ the issue. It does not.

The transgender + toys category was only about a month or two old at the start of this issue. There were no guidelines regarding gender tagging. None. Last time I checked the website, there were none still. These were all guidelines made up on the fly and only discussed in the e-mails. They were not posted anywhere on the website and as far as I know, continue to be non-existent on their website.

These guidelines were made up, on the fly, to deal with people complaining about there being a trans person gendering themselves correctly with the tags. So no, I was not going against there guidelines because there were no guidelines to go against in regards to gender. the only guideline was ‘no purposefully mistagging videos’ which I was not doing. I am a guy and I am transgender, thus I picked both categories.

The End

Why does everybody have to ruin everything for trans people